Friday, June 8, 2007

selecto: puedes elegir entre

Come to contemplate on this: do we really have the choice in our own or it just meant to happen for any purpose and reason, we don’t know? Yes, the freedom of choosing preference is in ours, still, no matter and how best we’ve done, the choice we make did not apt at all or did not flows in the same direction to the fate or destiny we have. We make selection and do everything we can to realize the choice we have made yet in the process, we we’re challenged of teething troubles or hitches that arrived to alter our choices so that it will goes to what fate would like to happen, either positively or negatively. And in the end, we keep asking ourselves on of how many whys and what we have chosen or done wrong. Regret is the predominating emotion that occurs in our hearts, an ocean full of bitterness that filled of tidal waves yelling if we just can turn back time so we can able to choose again, still life is a one way process and no turning back anymore. After all, everything has a rationale and purpose… somebody told me, Earth is like a stage and we are those actresses or actors playing or acting, all the actions and what we will said are scripted so no matter what choices we made or escape still it goes to the fate you have, it just have to come.

Friday, May 25, 2007

Ain’t that love…?

A true great love can bear the pain and longitude of waiting even if it takes forever. When confused about love, follow your heart; it may not always be right but you will have the memories to make you smile. If your head tells you one thing and your heart tells you another thing, before you decide, you should first think whether you have a better head or heart. It’s okay to kiss a fool or let the fool kiss you but never let a kiss fools you. Don’t find love, let if find you that’s why it’s called falling in love, you just fall. Never be ashamed to show love when you feel it because one day you might realize that love is already afraid to show itself to you.
Girls are like angels, they easily forgive and forget while men are devils they easily get and forget. To love someone is to have the courage to walk away and let the other one who wishes to be free, no matter how much it hurts. Never say, “I love you” when you don’t even care. Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. Never touch a heart if you mean to break it. Never look in the eyes if all you have to say is a lie and never say hello if you mean goodbye.
Love is like a butterfly the more you chase it, the more it eludes you, but if you just let it fly, it would came to you, when the least you expect. On the course of loving people, teach the hearts to be brave enough to hold on when things go wrong, and brave enough to let go when they realized that things are not meant to be after all.
Most relationships are like traffic signs: one-way, two way, do not enter, slippery when wet, no u-turn, no left-turn; but what I like most is to give way. Words and heart should be handled with care, for words when spoken and heart when broken, are the hardest thing to repair.
The simplest pick up line doesn’t have so many words, all I need is “I” for me to say it, “LOVE” for me to share it; and “YOU” for me to give it. Don’t shed your tears from someone who hurt you. Don’t long for the person if they left. Don’t feel sorry, if you fail when you try your best. Someone out there is far more deserving for your time and love. If someone tells you “I Love You” you shouldn’t wonder why, or why, or how, or since when, or for how long because that someone wouldn’t have a single answer except to tell you again.
In the name of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or lose, what’s important is that you know when to hold on and when to let go. It’s the presence of soul that makes us “Live” but it’s the presence of “Love” that makes us want to live. If your heart gets broken by the time you truly love… Don’t let go of the love for the person but let go of the person. You’ll never know love might be sweetest the second time around. It’s hard to find true love because people are too caught up looking for the perfect person. They don’t realize that love is not finding the perfect person but being the perfect for someone else.
Love knows no reason. Love knows no lie, love defines all reasons, love has no eyes, love is not blind, they can see but they just don’t mind. We are sometimes afraid to say, “I miss you” but often misunderstood leaving the once we love on which you don’t realized that it also feels the same feelings like you do. Love not because the person is the only one but because the person is the one you are willing to give up everything.
It’s hard to pretend you love someone that you don’t. But it’s harder to pretend you don’t love someone that you really do. Once you had loved, you will always be love. For what’s on your mind may escape, but what’s on your heart will always remain forever.
Love is not how you forget but rather how you forgive. It is not how you listen but how you understand, not by what you say, but by what you do and not by what you receive but by what you give. True love wants a person to be happy even if you wont be the one that person will share his/her happiness with. If you love someone, don’t hold back, never hide your feelings, never economize your love and most of all never take the person for granted because you will never know what you have till its gone. Sometimes we think that loving someone can be such a risky thing. How else would you win if you don’t take chances? You don’t lose by giving, you lose by holding back.
Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in love with you coz when you do, you will have to keep the standards for the rest of your life. Never rush in love, for it never runs out. Let love be the one to look for you so that when you start to fall, you will always know that the feeling is sure.
Yes… it drives you crazy, it makes you mad, jealous, sad, it even causes you sleepless nights, breaks your heart. Well come to think of it. It is healthy to fall in love. True love is not when the hearts beats faster, but when your hearts beats no more yet the love is still there. If you love a person with no reason at all then you are using your heart.
Love is not around to say when we feel guilty, not even the right word when we like a person. But love really maters when we share thoughts, minds and our hearts. How do I say goodbye to someone, I really never had? Why do tears fall to someone who was never really mine? Why do I love someone whose love was never truly mine?
Don’t be too good, I might miss you. Don’t be too caring, I might like you. Don’t be too sweet, I might fall. It’s for me to love you when you don’t love me after all.


-Anonymous-